Grey’s finale feelings.
It starts:
Why am I watching this, I know it’s only going to make me sad.
Everybody screaming at the beginning:
Seeing Mark, Christina, Meredith and Arizona are for now mostly okay:
Seeing Lexie in bad shape:
Seeing Derek’s hand trapped:
This…
There are five stages of grief.
Lexie: Grief may be a thing we all have in common, but it looks different on everyone.
Mark: It isn't just death we have to grieve. It's life. It's loss. It's change.
Alex: And when we wonder why it has to suck so much sometimes, has to hurt so bad. The thing we gotta try to remember is that it can turn on a dime.
Izzie: That's how you stay alive. When it hurts so much you can't breathe, that's how you survive.
Derek: By remembering that one day, somehow, impossibly, you won't feel this way. It won't hurt this much.
Bailey: Grief comes in its own time for everyone, in its own way.
Owen: So the best we can do, the best anyone can do, is try for honesty.
Meredith: The really crappy thing, the very worst part of grief is that you can't control it.
Arizona: The best we can do is try to let ourselves feel it when it comes.
Callie: And let it go when we can.
Meredith: The very worst part is that the minute you think you're past it, it starts all over again.
Cristina: And always, every time, it takes your breath away.
Meredith: There are five stages of grief. They look different on all of us, but there are always five.
Alex: Denial.
Derek: Anger.
Bailey: Bargaining.
Lexie: Depression.
Richard: Acceptance.
There’s a reason I said I’d be happy alone. It wasn’t because I thought I’d be happy alone, it was because I thought that if I loved someone, and then it fell apart, I might not make it. It’s easier to be alone, because what if you learn that you need love, and then you don’t have it, what if you like it, and lean on it, what if you shake your life around it, and then… it falls apart. Can you even survive that kind of pain ? Losing love is like organ damage. It’s like dying. The only difference is : death ends. This… it can go on forever.
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| — | Meredith Grey, Grey’s Anatomy. |
I just realized something funny…
Mark’s first appearance on Grey’s, he hits on Meredith.
Lexie’s first appearance on Grey’s, she hits on Derek.
I’ll guide you through, I’ll wipe your tears
I’ll hold your hand, I’ll make it ok
I am here, I’ll never leave
And I have missed you
Calzona fans:
Arizona will be fine. Callie will be fine. Do you REALLY think Shonda is stupid enough to destroy and give up a storyline like Calzona’s that has given the show so much free promo, positive press, and award recognition?
Shonda might be an evil bitch, but she’s not STUPID.
So keep calm, and look at the pretties….
